A little bit of happiness.

by Antonia on October 31, 2011

Yesterday, my dad, brother and I sat in a perfectly nice Italian restaurant. We got a table next to the window and while we were enjoying a jolly good time, my eyes started to wander and through the passing crowd I saw something I see ever so often. A homeless man, sitting on the floor with a coffee cup in front of him. No sign was propped up in front of him, he didn’t say anything either. There was no sob story. He just sat there. His dog was laying on his legs, sleeping. All the man did was stroke him. Over and over, at the same pace.

A strange calm surrounded this man. He was surrounded by hundreds of people and yet, it was like he and his trusted companion lived in their own little world. It seemed like it didn’t matter that they were homeless, that they silently asked strangers for money or that the only thing keeping said man warm, was his best friend.

I was transfixed by them. My brother told me to stop staring but I wasn’t staring. I was trying to figure out how someone who lives on the streets can seem so content. I’m not saying he was but he seemed to be. He seemed to have everything he needed right there in front of him. The story unfolding itself in front of me was both heart-wrenching and heart-warming. It was a picture of sadness and happiness. It was the story of broken dreams and most likely an unexpected life. And yet, I have never seen anyone so peaceful. Accepting of what life threw at him and happy of the things he still had.

Maybe, everything I witnessed is just a picture of my imagination. Maybe it’s just me hoping that this man finds a little bit of happiness each day. Or maybe, it’s just something I needed to see to be reminded of all the wonderful things in my life.

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Sometimes, we must see the reality to be reminded that we have all the wonderful things in life.Thank you for sharing a very inspirational thoughts.It makes us realize that we're lucky.

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Hi Kate, Thanks so much for your comment. :) Glad you enjoyed the post!

Wow! That was intense.. I had goosebumps reading your post.. I guess being content doesn't mean getting everything you want but simply having everything you need. Thanks Antonia for this heart warming post!

Hi Sandraw, glad you liked the post! Totally agree with the having everything you need versus everything you want bit. Hope you stop by again soon ;)

It is good to share your happiness with others.. Thanks for posting this such a amazing story.. Everyone of us has a nice story and yours is one of it.. Keep posting some more!

i just like what you have written here, very touching. and i can truly say you have such a big heart for seeing and wishing this man to have a little happiness each day.

I believe that happiness is not something like a material thing or something we can search else where. True happiness come from with in and being satisfied is all in our minds. The more we think of material things to make us happy the more we upset ourselves for not achieving it.

Hi Evelyn, I agree very much with what you say! Happiness can't be found in material things. It's something we have to find within ourselves, however hard that may be!

We often look at things, but we don't always see. Loving the picture you painted from what you saw, miss.

Thanks Dboy ;) I always love it when you stop by here! Come back soon ;)

Most people (probably including myself) would have looked upon what you did, but not see what you saw.

I like you, Antonia, in. Punk sort of way, of course.

Mark

Aw Mark, that's sweet. I like you too.. you know in a punk sort of way ;)

Antonia,
Funny how life sometimes gets our attention, yes? Nicely written...

Life grabs our attention at the most random times, doesn't it. :) Glad you enjoyed the post!

Wow, this is amazing Antonia, thanks for the timely reminder. I think you are absolutely, too easily we forgot what we are actually after - being happy. Love your writing style

Ahhh Leo! Thanks for stopping by my good ol' blog! How are you keeping? I just read all the updates on Buffer but never comment because I'm useless that way! But I do follow everything you guys get up to! How's SF treating you? You coming back to the UK anytime soon?

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